Hello everyone question I need to get away for a day from my life so I want to go to disneyland for the day. So the problem is my husband things I dont need to go there by myself but I need too. So do I get on a airplane and fly down for the day or do I tell him I'm going? Help please!
I'm no family therapist, but I think getting on a plane without telling him would be a serious issue in the relationship. - MyPark943.6 #91 8-19-12 8:07PMLike(2) Reply
you're probably right but I still need to get away! - disneyland4me 230.9 #1227 8-19-12 8:12PM
I think the second someone tells you that you can't do something by yourself, you should jump on the plane and fly far, far away. - ScubaSteve028807.5 #114 8-19-12 8:02PMLike Reply
Apparently I give the worst advice here😂 - ScubaSteve028 807.5 #114 8-19-12 8:50PM
Not bad advice at all. I mean, I don't know about flying far, far away but I don't think anyone should be told what they can and can't do. - Mimmy 1405.4 #57 8-19-12 8:56PM
I'm a stay at home mom and my husband things cents he works he can just go do his things and I never get a break from anything so I think I need to have a day to myself and yes I'm going in december with the family. - disneyland4me 230.9 #1227 8-19-12 8:33PM
Honestly, a trip to Disneyland isn't going to fix this. It will provide some temporary relief but will not fix the issues that you are having. Sounds like you need to have an open conversation with your husband about carving out some time for yourself on a regular basis. - Mimmy 1405.4 #57 8-19-12 8:40PM
agreed with Mimmy :) hope you 2 can work this out - HandMeAChurroImmaFaint 1775.2 #42 8-19-12 8:48PM
It always bothers me about relationships when someone can tell someone else what they can or can't do. So I feel for ya and want to say to go anyway, but then again, if you a family maybe a trip isn't worth the fallout either. - madsdad1122.8 #73 8-19-12 8:41PMLike Reply
Sit down TALK to your hubby. Maybe you can get a sitter and have a spa day, or just be by yourself for the day. The worst thing you can do is just take off without telling him. I have been married for 37 years, communication is very important. Maybe a spa day and date night with hubby. - sewgirl340.5 #427 8-19-12 8:45PMLike Reply
That's so hard. Being a mom is tough and many think being at home you don't need a break but for your own sanity I know you do. I say be open with him, maybe start by writing a letter saying what you feel and hoping you can talk about it more. - MarshaMouse2834.8 #15 8-19-12 8:46PMLike Reply
Thanks everyone! I think I'll take sewgirl advice and take a spa day and wait intill december and go to disneyland with my family! You guys are the best and I hope to meet some of you soon! - disneyland4me230.9 #1227 8-19-12 8:54PMLike Reply
Good luck! My daughter is a stay at home mom I know its tough. Let your hubby know how you feel. He might surprise you. - sewgirl 340.5 #427 8-19-12 8:59PM
